tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post8909144021251548985..comments2023-09-09T02:33:10.763-05:00Comments on Fond of the Silliness: Twenty Two PoundsAmandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13917013165676755612noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-82747473607588641462011-02-20T00:32:48.486-06:002011-02-20T00:32:48.486-06:00Oh, how scary! Any surgery is terrifying-- both fo...Oh, how scary! Any surgery is terrifying-- both for the baby who doesn't understand what's going on, and the mommy who has to stand by and watch. Good luck to both of you!The Lovely Onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02116016955719774820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-73172178620976582022011-02-17T07:28:17.600-06:002011-02-17T07:28:17.600-06:00What a wonderful perspective you have kept. Anythi...What a wonderful perspective you have kept. Anything that happens to our babies is overwhelming. And I agree with you that it is so important to acknowledge our nurses! They certainly don't get enough credit.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01564542013071462911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-4413407880545380882011-02-16T22:50:55.453-06:002011-02-16T22:50:55.453-06:00Amanda - as a new mom I took my son to the doctor ...Amanda - as a new mom I took my son to the doctor three days in a row for this projectile vomiting thing, first 2 time got the doc that treated me and my dad and perhaps his dad too, who suggested liquids. Third visit I got the new doc, and she immediately upon exam called a nurse to take baby while she explained to us that we were going to the hospital now and that surgery would be tonight. It was all very scary - AND after the surgery he could only have limited food (think that's the only thing that bothered him) but it was hell for me. He is fine now. Thanks for asking.Kirbynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-42625497977470652722011-02-16T17:04:40.098-06:002011-02-16T17:04:40.098-06:00Regardless of whether it's terminal or unfixab...Regardless of whether it's terminal or unfixable any little thing wrong with our babies is heart breaking. It sounds like your sweet Evie has good Doctors (and nurses) on her side. I will pray for peace and wellness for all of you. Sometimes the anticipation is worse than the circumstance itself.<br /><br />Big hugs to youMrs Montoyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01211817860547896809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-23030784035072386082011-02-16T16:21:47.993-06:002011-02-16T16:21:47.993-06:00Megs: Thanks for being such a supportive friend. ...Megs: Thanks for being such a supportive friend. I heart you.<br /><br />Renee Ann: Another success story! I love it! Thank you.<br /><br />Angie: Thanks for the kind words. She is a doll, isn't she? : ) She really is perfect.<br /><br />Joann: Wow, I can't imagine being your MIL and dealing with that 40 years ago. It feels scary now. But I love hearing that it was a very difficult situation and things turned out well for him. <br />That's my prayer too...that this is her biggest hurdle in life. Thank you, again.<br /><br />Bernadette: Thank you! I don't always feel strong, but I know I am and can get her through this.<br /><br />Shell: It is stressful to have something like this go on with your baby. It truly makes me thankful that my kids are, so far, very healthy otherwise. I keep thinking that at least this time next year it will be far behind us.<br /><br />No Wonder Mom: Thanks, I appreciate the comment. Sending her into the surgery will be the hardest thing I do. But hopefully it will be smoother from there. It will be so good to have it behind us and just move forward.<br /><br />Kirby: Wow, now that sounds very scary. Is everything fixed up now? I hope it is and no further surgeries are needed. You have a good point about healing well though, they are more resilient than they seem I guess. So sorry for your struggles too.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13917013165676755612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-1250148331051582242011-02-16T16:12:37.046-06:002011-02-16T16:12:37.046-06:00Thank you, everyone! Your comments and emails are...Thank you, everyone! Your comments and emails are very much appreciated. <br /><br />As were all the stories about other people you've known with cleftie kids that have had their surgeries and gone on to be just fine.<br /><br />Traci: Oh, I can't imagine what it's like the moment they take your baby away to surgery : ( So glad he came out fine. Thank you for the story of your niece too! I love hearing she had a quick recovery.<br /><br />Amanda- I emailed you back : )<br /><br />Cassie- 2lbs at birth? I can not imagine! I bet 22lbs was an incredibly happy day for you guys. It reminds me to, that we all have our struggles, but I do have a pretty healthy baby. I hope your son is doing very well. Prayers of peace and safety are the best kind.<br /><br />Julie: Thank you! You are a sweetie face. I can't believe your boy is getting so big already. I bet you can't either. Probably seems like just yesterday you were getting your epidural and assuming it would take away your pain. ; )Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13917013165676755612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-59127537470719807192011-02-16T12:09:23.521-06:002011-02-16T12:09:23.521-06:00Very scary... my son had to have surgery at 3 wee...Very scary... my son had to have surgery at 3 weeks for Pyloric stenosis, the valve between stomach and intestine hardened closed and he could hit the ceiling with spit-up...talk about scary. The good thing about surgery and babies - they heal so quickly and like you pointed out there are much worse medical conditions than what my son had.Kirbynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-61757781107935776442011-02-16T11:49:51.474-06:002011-02-16T11:49:51.474-06:00Oh my goodness. It is never easy dealing with som...Oh my goodness. It is never easy dealing with something that affects your precious little baby. And it is NEVER easy to send your baby in for surgery. I agree with Shell. Hugs to you, as it's so hard to be the mommy in these circumstances.The No Wonder Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07845910134070134939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-58105356031299989022011-02-16T08:53:15.728-06:002011-02-16T08:53:15.728-06:00Oh, poor baby! Even though it's something fixa...Oh, poor baby! Even though it's something fixable, this is still your baby. It's not as bad as it could be, but that doesn't make it any less stressful on you.Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06811697675090627618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-32333392746409428952011-02-15T21:38:02.691-06:002011-02-15T21:38:02.691-06:00oh, I feel for you! What a worry! I will keep you ...oh, I feel for you! What a worry! I will keep you all in my prayers that the surgery goes well! You are a strong mom with a strong and amazing lil girl! <br /><br />Bernadette<br />http://momto2poshlildivas.blogspot.comMom to 2 Posh Lil Divashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01944242710386537671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-15077900153109274032011-02-15T18:10:35.613-06:002011-02-15T18:10:35.613-06:00So, guess what? My hub's brother was born with...So, guess what? My hub's brother was born with a cleft palate. A horrible one. One that back in the day, was almost considered insurmountable. Over four decades ago, he had surgery and today? You can barely see his scar. His mom said once his palate healed, his speech took off. He's now a healthy grown man and in fact, today is his birthday. <br /><br />Blessings and prayers and every good thing coming your way all in the name of your sweet baby girl. May she fly through her surgery and heal quickly and may this be her biggest hurdle in life. And I'm very sorry about your mom.Joann Mannixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11163491824085428085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-51812123816185792492011-02-15T16:18:53.256-06:002011-02-15T16:18:53.256-06:00Oh no. So sorry to hear about your mother, and I ...Oh no. So sorry to hear about your mother, and I can totally understand why 22 lbs would be dreaded. Scary sending a child into surgery. Hope it goes really well when the time comes. She is an absolutely doll.Claremont First Wardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02529859630615522678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-60011200129366093892011-02-15T12:05:23.198-06:002011-02-15T12:05:23.198-06:00My heart goes out to you in your concern for your ...My heart goes out to you in your concern for your baby! I'm sure many have assured you that this will end well. My friend's son has had 3 surgeries for cleft, and he's barely 2 yrs. old. The doctors and nurses were wonderful with him and the parents. I'm praying that that's how it will be for you! Thanks for visiting me at Doorkeeper. Blessings!Renee Annhttp://reneeannsmith.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-17189202745308608292011-02-15T11:11:30.279-06:002011-02-15T11:11:30.279-06:00Your blog is so amazing. You have the ability to ...Your blog is so amazing. You have the ability to make people laugh out loud and tear up, all in the same few days. I love my strong little niece and I love her strong parents too. This explained so clearly what Evie is going through. I know I was confused upon first hearing about it and it's nice to share this info with others, especially those who have some knowledge/experience with the same thing. I agree with your shout out to nurses as well. They are key to every single medical experience, but matter even more as a parent when it's our children who need care.Megsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-11161952145989712012011-02-15T08:50:15.204-06:002011-02-15T08:50:15.204-06:00I can't say I know how you feel, but as a moth...I can't say I know how you feel, but as a mother, my heart hurts that your family has to go through this. I will pray for you all and I hate 22 pounds with you. But that baby girl has some phenomenal genes and she will be amazing! xoJuliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12677417226885450749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-26822352967993129732011-02-15T06:23:20.315-06:002011-02-15T06:23:20.315-06:00My story is opposite yours. My son was born premat...My story is opposite yours. My son was born premature and was 2 pounds at birth. 22 pounds was a huge milestone that was celebrated. We will always be here for you. Let us know how we can help. Prayers of peace, understanding and safety are coming your way!that1gamer2knowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00788331821042928546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-10410160450603384432011-02-14T19:22:03.642-06:002011-02-14T19:22:03.642-06:00I can't know exactly what you're feeling b...I can't know exactly what you're feeling because I haven't gone through this. But I can understand your fears, your dread, and your emotions as a mother. I send you all my love and can promise prayers. And if you're in TX when she has surgery, I'd happily help out or be at your side. XOXOAmanda M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10287459817938983138noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3389896729464035127.post-67148083570905990662011-02-14T19:09:47.134-06:002011-02-14T19:09:47.134-06:00Oh you poor dear! I kinda understand what you are ...Oh you poor dear! I kinda understand what you are going through my youngest was born with a defect involving his testicles (won't go into great details)when he was born they said he would have to have surgery when he was 18months old it was so hard to watch them take him with his teddy bear into surgery. It ripped my heart in half. He came out just fine though. My niece was born with a cleft palate and she had the surgery at around 14 months she did amazing we were all surprised how quickly she recovered! I will say a little prayer for you and your daughter. Hugs, TraciAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com